A light on my past....

              What do I say!!! How can I tell you how am I feeling now!!! It was just yesterdays’ memories….. Never got to know how things went by. Just a drop of tear peeps out to see the present after looking back once. Just a drop of tear when I look back and feel it was yesterday… My yesterdays… Can any technology beat this connection!!!

              How can I say how am I feeling when I find a piece of old paper in my dad’s cupboard which had the innocent alphabets written on it, speaking to me and telling me that “ It is you who wrote me for the first time.. It is your dad who preserved me since then.” How can my tears stop rolling out when I see a small little shirt of a size bigger than my palm telling me that “It is you who wore me for the first time.. It is your mom who preserved me since then.”
         
             I stand in my terrace folding my hands.. Wind blows on my face and the breeze is giving me the fragrance of my past.. When I close my eyes feeling the breeze.. droplets of my tears on my folded hand I could feel.. My mind and heart were getting dragged by my past.. Took me to my yesterdays...and am lost...

             I still can feel how I used to feel when I was holding your hand to go to buy milk daily early in the morning grandpa. Every step used to be a story. How cannot my eyes force to throw out the tears! When I turn back and see my yesterdays, my grandma preparing medicine and applying on my wounded knees and praying god for my recovery.. How can I forget those tear-filled eyes of love! How can I!!

             Grandpa, grandma, so what if you are not here. I can feel you every moment.. I can feel your presence every where.. I am connected to you.. I know wherever you are, you are smiling and blessing me every time.. Every cell of mine is telling that I came from you. Grandpa, it still is following the ethics that you had instilled. It still is speaking the language of love which you had taught.. It still is humble as you wanted it to be.. It is still going in the right path with the right set of people as you always wished.. It still is holding the nature of being humane as yours.. And I promise you that it will remain the same forever.. It is still speaking to me every second grandpa every second.. I know it is you and I can hear you.. I can really feel you.. We are still connected and I know that.. I really love you….

Tension & Examination- Never a good combination

Difficulty in scoring???

                  Body is shivering????

                                Do you call it ‘studying’???

                                            Stop worrying,Keep on reading……. 

                     Well well.. Good morning friends..

What are the above questions for??? Not me, ask yourself… A lot of times we do this mistake.. We waste a lot of time asking questions to ourselves… Then why have I mentioned these questions!!  Is because you need someone to make you realize.. 

                    My dear friends, this is what I want all of us realize.. We always wait for someone to come and guide us or make us realize our mistakes and duties.. Yes you got that right.. Am talking about Self-Realization.. Most of us realize that we have to study, only during our examination.. When we know we have to study, why do we wait for an external pressure.. Later we do what not.. We surf for a better tips.. We start calling our friends.. If our friend is also doing the same as we are, we feel little relaxed.. If anywhere we feel that our friend is far better than us, add on tension.. and finally when we realize there are only few more hours left, we start cribbing… Please come out of this.. Stop complaining.. Stop blaming others for our stupidity..

                   Understand one thing my dear friend.. Don’t waste your time peeping into others’ life.. You know what- you will stay undoubtedly the best amongst the rest, only and only when you are at your best.. Stop comparing yourself with others..

                    When you have taken a topic in your hand complete it.. I know most of the time, when you sit with a topic for longer, you remember some other topic that you have to cover.. That is when you get tensed.. Never leave any topic incomplete.. Else you end up completing nothing..

                    I’ll teach you a mantra today for your betterment.. read carefully.. Whenever any bad thoughts enter your mind, just say- I have no time for all that..

                   Time is none of our property.. It won’t stop, if we stop..

                    Be yourself wherever you are.. What does that mean.. That means give 100% in whatever you do.. Concentrate completely.. When you study involve in that completely as if you are born to study.. When you are playing, play as if you are born for that.. Whatever you do, do it as if you took birth exclusively for that.. Then you see the magic.. God is watching all of us.. If efforts are sincere, he’ll do the justice.. Don’t worry.. Stop worrying, start studying.. Don't feel the pressure but the pleasure..

                    And ya never forget.. Be happy in whatever you do.. Enjoy your studies too..

All the best… Keep your mind calm.. Be sincere to your alarm..

                    Now tell your mind-  Zyaada kaam, less aaram..

                                                      Warna dena padega bada daam.                                                  

                                                       Roshan ho aapka naam

                                                      

                    My dear friends life itself is an examination and it keeps testing you in every step.. If we get scared of these small papers, how do you face the big one.. Just do it.. You can...

                    God bless you all.. Rock your exams JJ

                     I conclude by saying- Do your duties with no black marks and you will definitely score full marks - PK

Smile is never prohibited:):) So keep smiling :):)

                                                                                                     

 Life is always challenging but you keep smiling:)

               Because smile is the only weapon that has the power to kill all your problems:) Whenever you are sad just look at the mirror and give a smile.

               Trust me it gives you a lot of strength to face anything on the earth :) If not for anyone but for the person who genuinely wants you to be happy always, the person who wants to see you smiling, the person who's purpose of life itself is to see you happy and the person who is the most precious gift of your parents and the person whom am talking about is YOU. Keep smiling(the gift that which u can give your parents back in return). Your parents happiness always lies in your happiness.. Well it's vice-versa.. 

               Just start observing the things that you do daily.. Whenever you are happy you do things more efficiently than usual.. Because it is proven that a smile keeps your mind calm.. When you are calm, less pressure on mind resulting in more efficient work.. Be happy.. Read my first blog to get an answer for the question why to be happy.. :)

             Every smile is beautiful :):) Every smile is a new beginning.. Because every time you smile you wake up the actual yourself  in you, who always wants to be happy.. :):) It keeps you fresh.. A fresh mind is a god's mind.. Which thinks only positive.. Which does only good things.. See smile also makes you a good person..

              

             Nobody is permanent for you except yourself.. So when you know you are there for you, Keep smiling :) love yourself and live for you genuinely :) God bless.... Happy you, happy the world:) The world looks as your face is like.. It takes the shape of your expressions... So keep your face in a happy mode always.. :):)

              My mentor always taught me and is true in all of our cases.. Anyone for that matter would love to be with the person who's always happy than being with the one who has complaints on everything in life..:):) Ha ha ... Am sure the moment you read this your mind would have made pictures of two individuals Mr.Happy and Mr.Sad, who act as testimonies for my above statement.. Well well,now is the time to ask yourself a question.. Ask yourself..that did your mind make your picture when you thought about Mr.Happy.. If yes is your answer- Fantastic.. A pat on your back.. If it is No- Then no problem.. Just make sure next time or rather from this very moment it should be you as Mr.happy in the picture :):) My dear friend life's once.. only once.. live every moment.. Because you deserve it.. Don't reverse it or reserve it.. You will not get an other chance to Re-Serve it..:):)

             Well thank u :):) Keep smiling 

Simply simple things look so complicated sometimes..... And sometimes we make them look so…

Simply simple things look so complicated sometimes…

And sometimes we make them look so…

Many a times we come across few things which are though simple look so compl

icated.. It is because we don’t see things as it’s actual existence is.. But we always try and see it in different ways.. Again if why is ur question, here’s the answer…Because we, in the current world are very used to competitive complicated questions.. Our brains are so much used to it that we see simple things also in a complicated way.. Whenever we see simple questions or challenges infront of us, our brain immediately says- “No no no.. It can’t be so simple.. There should be some twist in this… A hidden complication may be..” There we go again seeing the challenge in multi-dimensional way.. That’s when we make simple things complicated..

I’ll give u a very simple example.. In our day to day life we come across this question very often though, we wouldn’t have realized it… We are so used to complications… Whenever someone asks – “What r u doing?”.. Immediately what’ll our mind answer!!!! Our mind goes to the extent of connecting our present work to the beneficiary future related plans.. we make the question which expects an answer of ur present action, so complicated..

My dear friends, we have lot of real complications to face already.. So let’s not spoil our time and life by making simple things also complicated… Let’s keep simple things simple to make our life better…

How to recognize whether the smile is from heart or just other art of a person????????

How to recognize whether the smile is from heart or just other art of a person????????

All the emotions can be expressed. In other words every emotion has an expression. Similarly our happiness also has a symbol of expression .i.e. “smile”.

Smile is the symbol of happiness.

So what’s special in that??? Everyone knows it… you are absolutely right my dear friend… everyone knows it. But today I’m here to share which is new in the known fact.

I’ll tell you the actual fact behind the smile. Every time you are happy you will definitely smile. But, that doesn’t mean every time you smile you are happy. Some smiles are to hide the sorrows which prick the mind. This fact only few can make out easily... I’ll tell you today the secret behind recognizing the smile.

‘Face is the index of mind’ is the fact which has been universally accepted.

Similarly ‘eyes are the index of happiness’.

How?????? Confused!!!!!! I’ll clear itJ

When a person smiles wholeheartedly his eyes also smile. i.e. if the person is really happy not only his lips expand but also his eyes expand. But, if the person smiles for the sake of it, only his lips expand…. This is where you can recognize whether the smile is genuine or not…. Simple but helps to identify one of the expressions properly... Right???? J

To make it very clear, I’ll give you an example..

Observe an artist when he paints a happy face, first he paint the eyes which express the happiness.. Once he completes painting the eyes, you can say it’s a face of a happy man even before he paints the lips…. How???? This is what I’m trying convey friends that eyes are the index of happiness J

I wish you all a genuine smile in life…

Some times some things are hidden...

It has been heard from my leaders that human mind flashes on 60,000 thoughts a day..
This is a real good experience of everyone which acts as a proof for the above statement. sometimes we will be speaking on some topic and when we are about to say something, we forget .. we feel it is there in the tip of our tongue and we are not succeeding in its expression. But we remember the same topic some other time..The fact is our subconcious mind stores any topic we think of . When your mind gives a thought to something, it remembers or stores the thoughts along with the situation around and when the same kind of situation occurs again the mind sends you the message which has been stored before. This is why so many times we feel many situations as though it happened the same way before.
Very strange but very true:)

Life is like an ocean

Life is like an ocean. Where everybody whether they like it or not has to jump. Everybody struggle to reach the shore.

There are two kinds of people. One set of people know how to swim and the other don't.

The people who know how to swim can reach the shore in two ways. One by the help of a ship and the other way is to swim and reach.

The people who don't know how to swim can also reach the shore in two ways. One by the help of a ship and other way is to drown down and reach the shore as a dead body. 

Most of the people belong to the second category. Because they are already in the ocean and they do not know to swim. They fill in so much of negativity inside them, that they lose the hope of sustaining any more and as an impact of which they fail to recognize the ship which is right in front of their eyes. As a result of which many drown down and reach the shore as dead bodies and by ending their lives as food to vultures and other sea animals. 

Here you can ask me that at least I became food to some animals and by this few lives satisfied their hunger because of me? For which my answer is really very simple. If that was your goal of life, why simply have you wasted your precious years of life on eating, studying, thinking and fulfilling other basic requirements of life? Instead when you took birth you could have been a food to the animals!!!!! 

My dear friends, our life is not to become some useful element to others after our death. It is to recognize the ship coming in front of us and to reach the shore by its support. So believe that you can win the worse situation and be the best.

Coming to the other set of people who know how to swim, most of them would be having a myth that they can reach the shore by their capability. I appreciate the confidence. But don't forget that even they have a ship in front of them, which they are not using for their support. I would say this is another kind of stupidity. How long can anybody swim in the ocean against the waves and fighting with the wild creatures in the ocean. So if they fail to take the support of the ship, either they become food for animals or they die out of the strain. 

So what I'm trying to say is that when you have an opportunity, take it and utilize it to the best. So recognize the opportunity that comes in front of you. Never deny a platform that shows the way and acts as a ship to reach your goals quickly. I wish you a great success.